October 24, 2006
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A Brief Musing About "Race"
This short essay by Maya Angelou embodies my basic philosophy that, in order to overcome our stereotypes and prejudices, there is no substitute for having close personal relationships with the "other"...who is, we discover, not so very different from ourselves after all.
Excerpt from Wouldn’t Take Nothing For My Journey Now
By Maya Angelou
Our Boys
The plague
of racism is insidious, entering into our minds as smoothly and quietly and
invisibly as floating airborne microbes enter into our bodies to find lifelong
purchase in our bloodstreams.Here is a
dark little tale which exposes the general pain of racism. I wrote ten one-hour television programs
called Blacks, Blues, Blacks, which
highlighted Africanisms still current in American life. The work was produced in San
Francisco at KQED.The program
“African Art’s Impact on Western Art” was fourth in the series. In it I planned to show the impact African
sculpture had on the art of Picasso, Modigliani, Paul Klee, and Rouault. I learned that a Berkeley
collector owned many pieces of East African Makonde sculpture. I contacted the collector, who allowed me to
select thirty pieces of art. When they
were arranged on lighted plinths, the shadows fell from the sculptures on to
the floor, and we photographed them in dramatic sequence. The collector and his wife were so pleased
with the outcome that at my farewell dinner they presented me with a piece of
sculpture as a memento. They were white,
older, amused and amusing. I knew that if I lived in their area, we
would become social friends.I returned
to New York, but three years
later I moved back to Berkeley to
live. I telephoned the collector and
informed him of my move. He said, “So
glad you called. I read of your return
in the newspaper. Of course we must get
together.” He went on, “You know I am
the local president of the National Council of Christians and Jews. But you don’t know what I’ve been doing since
we last spoke. I’ve been in Germany
trying to ameliorate the conditions for the American soldiers.” His voice was weighted with emotion. He said, “You know, the black soldiers are
having a horrific time over there, and our boys are having a hard time, too.”I asked, “What
did you say?”He said, “Well,
I’m saying that the black soldiers are having it particularly tough, but our
guys are having a bad time, too.”I asked, “Would
you repeat that?”He said, “Well,
I’m saying…” Then his mind played back
his statement, or he reheard the echo of his blunder hanging in the air.He said, “Oh,
my God, I’ve made such a stupid mistake, and I’m speaking to Maya Angelou.” He said, “I’m so embarrassed. I’m going to hang up.” I said, “Please don’t. Please don’t.
This incident merely shows how insidious racism is. Please, let’s talk about it.” I could hear embarrassment in his voice, and
hesitations and chagrin. Finally, after about
three or four minutes, he managed to hang up.
I telephoned him three times, but he never returned my telephone calls.The
incident saddened and burdened me. The
man, his family and friends were lessened by not getting to know me and my
family and friends. And it also meant
that I, my family, and my friends were lessened by not getting to know
him. Because we never had a chance to talk, to teach each other and learn
from each other, racism had diminished all the lives it had touched.It is time
for the preachers, the rabbis, the priests and pundits, and the professors to
believe in the awesome wonder of diversity so that they can teach those who
follow them. It is time for parents to
teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is
strength. We all should know that
diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the
threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter their color, equal in
importance no matter their texture.Our young
must be taught that racial peculiarities do exist, but that beneath the skin,
beyond the differing features and into the true heart of being, fundamentally,
we are more alike, my friend, than we are unalike.…Mirror twins are different
although their features jibe,
and lovers think quite different
thoughtswhile lying side by side.
We love and lose in China,
We weep on England’s
moors,And laugh and moan in Guinea,
And thrive on Spanish shores.
We seek success in Finland,
Are born and die in Maine,
In minor ways we differ,
In major we’re the same.
I note the obvious differences
Between each sort and type,
But we are more alike, my friends,
Than we are unalike.
We are more alike, my friends,
Than we are unalike.
We are more alike, my friends,
Than we are unalike.
Pages 121-125
Comments (19)
whoa. the black guys and our guys, different then, different now. i love maya angelou. she has some very keen insights.
I too love Maya Angelou.
I am passing out a blessing today.
The Lord bless you and keep you;
The Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you;
The Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.
Blessings, Numbers 6:24-26
A most profound post John. Thank you!
Sweetest Blessings of the Goddess to you always!
~Namaste~
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I love Maya Angelou. She is always so full of heart. Her teachings and her writings always hit home.
RYC, 1968 Tigers included Al Kaline of course, but by 1968, Jim Bunning was already history.
1968 was in the era of the pitcher, and the Tigers who had Denny McLain, the last 30-game winner since Dizzy Dean of the 1934 Cardinals. Don't ask what happened to him.
But mostly the Tigers had great players, not superstar players who came together as a team when they were behind the Cardinals 3-1.
Most interesting was homegrown slugger, get ready for this, Willie Horton. When the evil, better-off-dead Lee Atwater made that despicable racist commercial against Dukakis with the Boston parolee Willie Horton, all of Michigan was collectively scratching their head thinking "WTF" and not voting Republican in that 1988 election or 1992 or 1996 or 2000 or 2004 or 2008. I never say "better off dead", but for Lee Atwater I will, and add that he deserves to have died relatively young like he did, and yes in his case I gloated when I heard that he had collapse on stage. The real Willie Horton risked his life to stand on his own car with a megaphone in the middle of the 1967 Detroit riots asking for rioters to stop. It didn't help, but God blessed him for trying.
Thanks for posting that. I needed it. Right now I am having a conversation w/ some conservative folks that refuse to acknowledge the need to relate to others. Oh and it was Seckou. Yes I am feeling better in some ways but the recovery always takes longer than the disease.
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That's weird. About 10 seconds before I got on here, I was telling hubby that next time I have to fill out anything that asks you to tick whether you are black white hispanic asain or other, I am going to tick other and try and describe my actual skin colour. <Tangent but...what you expect from me?
I really love Maya Angelou. She is an amazing lady. I created quite the controversy a few years back while signing up for a seminar. In the spot marked "race", I simply entered "human"... The people running the seminar couldn't comprehend that and called me and told me they couldn't process my application because I didn't fill in the race box. I refused to back down and they didn't let me go to the seminar. Go figure...
thanks, that was a great read!
hope your days and nights are splendiforous
peace and love, always...
thanks for your comment. that was a good boost. it makes me smile how all of us humans are so interconnected, even when we don't really KNOW each other. i pray for you to become aware of what our Creator has done and will do for you. he WANTS to, and that is something i've only now become quite sure of in my own life. i knew he COULD, mind ya.
i just wasn't sure he WANTED to... more than that, LONGS to. since i've experienced so much grief, it drove me to search for his answers and his presence. i'm no different than anyone else, and maybe one of the worse "sinners" alive; yet, here i am... hanging on for dear life to someone who is hanging onto me even tighter. my hero!
p.s. i love maya!
p.p.s. i just saw your other comment! my book is "Secret Doors" by Cindy Lincoln.
ryc: Maybe 5 years ago? Not that long really. The last excuse before they refused to process my application was "not knowing your race messes up our demographic" which is kind of weird considering it was a church related seminar.
My cousin just called and begged me to make her holiday shopping easier by telling her what I wanted instead of forcing her to wander stores looking for the perfect gift. I said a book by Maya Angelou, hung up, then read your post. I like her writing most of the time. Other times I love her words.
THIS is almost a completely AMERICAN phenomenon...although in colonial times all the imperialist Neropeons practiced it
Growing up in Jamaica, words like coolie mon [for people of Indian descent], chiney mon, neyga mon [pronounce NAY-ga...obviously for tarblack Black folk], etc. were thrown around freely, but without rancour
In fact, it was so commonplace to see someone darker than a shadow at midnight MATTRIED to Snow White that no one would bat an eye. My great-grandfather, who was still alive when i was a chile, lived with the Nubianest of nigresses when he came off the boat from Ireland...and i call myself Jamaican NOT because of some sense of nationalism...hell, i was BORN in Brookly...but because of the IDEALISM of racial insignificance my Jamaican ancestors demonstrated...i got cousins that are part Jewish, Portugese, Chinese, English, and damn near any other pseudo-race you got
Jamaica's national motto is Out of many, one people---which goes hand in hand with what i've always been told by my elders: There's only one race...the HUMAN race
While i often get into the racial thang on my site...most people realise it schtick
wow, i didn't think of it as a formula. i was just looking for "food" for my soul. i think desperation drives me to get all the help i can. information and education are power, i think, even in the spiritual realm, in spiritual matters. that's why i read that stuff. i don't believe EVERYTHING that's out there, so when i found that site, i was thrilled. i do know God relates to all of us where we are and in different ways. (as i do my four children). not looking for a "recipe" so much as just the TRUTH.
I got spat at yesterday by a black guy. He was walking in the road, saw a car coming and decided to move to the side of the road. Then he saw a white woman driving and so he spat at me. He wouldn't have spat if I'd been black (he would have been beaten up), he wouldn't have spat if I'd been a guy (he'd have been beaten up). So his racism was also cowardice. That puts it right in its place to me.
btw I live in the Caribbean and I see racism all the time but not from a majority of people. The whites are generally very polite about it and the blacks aren't. The whites are polite because its not their country so they can't be overt, they're cowards. The blacks are often quite overt, which is bullying, which is the other side of cowardice.
I've travelled a lot - I've been to probably 40 countries, but there is no way I will let my two big rasta stepsons go to the US until they have firmly established themselves as young men. The racism in the US is a total undercurrent of evil, of fear. I'm frightened they would end up in prison as so very many black men do. Undereducating and incarcerating the enemy, trying every which way to keep him down instead of dealing directly is cowardice too. Face your fears and deal with them I say.
This may not make sense to you but it would to Eminem, but then its your blog and not his.
I can personally vouch for the line that mirror twins are different. I've never heard of anyone who doesn't like Maya Angelou. Those who don't probably can't read.
Thank you for sharing, 007. I was not aware of this particular story.
-DI Edifice
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